In
the beginning you did lots of things to get your lady, and then once you got
her, you stop doing what attracted her to you in the first place. This will
drive a wedge between you. Getting a woman isn’t like fishing. When you go
fishing, you use bait. Well, once you catch the fish, you NO LONGER NEED the
bait. In dating, you CAN’T do that. Whatever you used in the beginning to get
the relationship started needs to be used to MAINTAIN the relationship. If not,
the woman will “feel” like something is missing, she’ll feel that something’s
is “different”.
Woman
feel cheated or deceived when after they get into a relationship you are
suddenly not the deal they sign up for. Maybe you use to call her thrice a day
and now it has become once in three days. Or you use to show passion for soap
opera when you are wooing her, suddenly it’s only about boring football talk!
You now hang out more with your friends than hanging out with her. She feels
“conquered’ that is you are moving on after successfully catching another fish
or you no longer felt the need to work hard on you relationship. You worked
hard to get her, you must work hard to keep her-otherwise you will lose her. Never
leave out those sets of “good” things she saw in you before saying yes.
This
is also means you must find out what attracted her to you in the first place,
and try to continue to work on it. You buy a power bike for its speed not
because it’s good to carry passengers, the moment the speed is lost, then it is
no longer relevant for its use.
TO BE CONTINUE LATER
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